This post was written years ago when we lived up north. Sadly, it seems to be as much or even more appropriate today.
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The beginning of December, I set out to find a small manger for a Christmas craft project. It could have been anything, on an ornament, a Christmas card, or even a figurine.
First, I went to the Dollar Store. I found nothing Christian but countless sets of Christmas cards with Santa and reindeer on them. Next, I went to Walmart (good luck there.) Nada. Then I walked through Home Depot – absolutely nothing Christian at all, but I could have purchased a red and green six-foot dragon . . . what that has to do with Christmas I’ve yet to figure out.
A few days later, still searching, I traveled to two shopping centers in another town. I checked out Michael’s craft store. The sweet girl acknowledged they used to carry them . . . but searching together, neither of us could find them anywhere. Neither did World Bazaar, J.C. Penny, or T.J. Maxx.
I thought Christian-run Hobby Lobby would undoubtedly carry a small manger scene, even if it was on a postcard! Yet once again, found nothing. I’m praying they were only sold out.
Finally, I found a Lifeway Christian bookstore. Aha! I thought, of course, I’ll find a manger scene here! And yes, I did! It was on a box of spiced apple cider. Desperate to find anything that might work, I purchased the over-priced drink mix, cut out the cardboard manger scene on the front, and pasted it on my craft project. (At least we’ll enjoy the beverage sometime during these cold winter months.)
Halfway through this hectic quest I felt like Charlie Brown, frustratingly asking where was Christmas??? I could find a plethora of Santa’s, sleighs, reindeer antlers, elf hats, chipmunks, cute bears and Grinch’s, but no Christ in Christmas!
Then I thought, at least I can find Christmas at church. Absolutely! I’ll find Peace on Earth here during this Joyous Season. Instead, I found a church member fussing in public, running around fuming, complaining, blaming others because they felt overworked and unappreciated in their position. (Hey, if your position is primarily to please people and not our Lord, get your priorities straight!)
Then yesterday, as my husband and I were finalizing the Christmas gifts and food for four community families in need; getting ready to drop off our congregation’s many generous donations, I found it. Eureka!
THIS IS WHAT CHRISTMAS IS ALL ABOUT: Christmas is about the Joy of Christ – blessing others, not ourselves. Bringing smiles and true Joy freely to others! A Free Gift.
As Jesus left his heavenly home to be born in Bethlehem, living as a man among us, he understood that completely. He beheld some petty frustrations of his friends and the slings and arrows of the Pharisees. He experienced the same feelings, joys, frustrations, challenges, and laughter that we do. He gave of himself, unselfishly. He sacrificed EVERYTHING, his very life for our pettiness, grumpiness, busyness, and selfish human behavior. All we must do is accept it. That was the best GIFT he could ever give.
Parents -do your children know what is the real reason for Christmas?
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)
Thanks for bringing this good article to the top for us to read again. “Noel, noel. Come and see what God has done.”
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Thank you Robert. I suppose this post is a little early but then – we do hear Christmas music and see Santa in September now, don’t we? 🙂 How I wish we kept Christ in Christmas much more.
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A beautiful post, and evergreen, Ellie. You certainly know the meaning of Christmas. ❤
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Oh Deb, how I praise God that He brought you into my life these past eight years or so. Your friendship means so much to me! ❤ Your comments always encourage me when I feel the urge to quit. It's then I remember how important all those wonderful friends I've "met" over the internet are in my life. Thank you and blessings back for a wonderful Christmas season,
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Aw shucks Ellie. The feeling is mutual my friend. The universe always sends us where we need to be. Wishing you and yours a beautiful holiday season Ellie. Hugs ❤
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Christmas can be found in our hearts, never in the stores of commercialism where there is a build of dollars. In our hearts we can build love and grow on that love by inviting others. Best regards this season and always. We are so inundated with fundraising and all.🎶😇🔔
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So true America, that is why I’ve always enjoy homemade gifts more than purchased ones. Homemade gifts made with love, come from the heart. ❤
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Amen to that Ellie. The personal touch of self, is more loving and more giving..
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Thanks, Ellie, for writing about the true meaning of Christmas. Bringing joy to others, as you so generously do all year round. May your Christmas be filled with love ❤
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Aww Carol, you humble me, sweet friend. I pray your Christmas season brings much joy. May it find you surrounded by family and friends, ❤
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Ellie, you always say the most comforting words at the right time! xxx
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